This bit’s easy. You get to be part of a community that ‘gets it’. One that’s supportive has either been where you are; is there at the same step of the journey you’re at now: or is a few steps behind you, looking at your achievements as something to aspire to.
You get not to be working everything out on your own. You get to be part of a group who understand and who give a damn. You get access to success if you work at it.